She stares into your
eyes: Newborns love to look at faces, and
yours is
her favorite. That soulful gaze is a hardwired survival instinct
designed
to attract love and attention from a caregiver. But it's also
the
beginning of her love for you – she's realizing just how important
you are
in her life.
He
recognizes your smell: Given the choice between a dozen
fragrant roses and your sweaty, milk-stained T-shirt, your baby will
go for the
shirt every time. "Even a 1-week-old will turn his head
toward a breast
pad soaked with his mother's milk". To your
newborn, nothing
smells sweeter than you.
She
smiles at you: The first time your baby gives you a true,
fabulous
grin is a magical moment. It's her way of saying "I love
you."
He talks
to you: Your baby's very earliest coos will be directed at you
or
another trusted caregiver – he won't start by talking to himself.
He'll use this early language to engage with you, so
answer back!
You're both laying the groundwork for real conversation later
.
She
wants you around: About halfway through your baby's first year,
you'll
notice that she's not happy
with your absence. She may scrunch
up her face or cry when you step
out of the room, and she'll smile
upon your return – a sign of her growing
attachment.
He
shares your interests: Whether it's a display of holiday
lights or the
dirty laundry, if you scrutinize it, your baby will do the same.
Called
mutual attention, this behavior can start when your baby is just a few
months old, but it's more pronounced at 9 to 12 months. "It's a sign
that
your child is engaged with you and values what you're paying
attention
to".
She uses
you as a shield: Don't be surprised if your baby buries her
head in your
chest when someone new appears on the scene.
"Stranger anxiety"
is a normal phase, and turning to you for protection
means your baby loves you
and trusts you to keep her safe.
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